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title: "Relationship Personality Profile"
date: 2017-03-15
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# Relationship Personality Profile

# Why is my partner driving me crazy?

Most couples eventually find out they are in a multicultural relationship, meaning my “partner is different than me in more ways than I thought.”

This is because the personality styles people grow up with begin to stabilize over time and become ingrained in how they act. Sometimes this begins to be misunderstood and this is especially true when we are with the people we love and value. Please answer the following questions the way you are most of the time, not who you would like to be. This is not about changing who you are, it is about understanding who you are and how to capitalize on your attributes.









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In your relationship:\*  I assume my partner knows I love them without having to say it 

  I feel it is important to say “I love you” 





In your relationship:\*  I feel it easy and necessary to express my feelings 

  I sometimes have a hard time expressing my feelings 





When making decisions,\*  I let my heart lead the way 

  I try to choose the logical answer 





When communicating with my partner it is more important:\*  to be clear and concise and get to the point 

  to take my time in explaining things so they will understand me 





If there is a chance I might hurt my partner's feelings by telling the truth, I will\*  keep it to myself or say it in a nicer way that won’t hurt them 

  say it like it is 





When my partner gives me a birthday card, I like one that is:\*  creative and imaginative 

  sweet and romantic 





When I do things with my partner I prefer to:\*  have things planned out 

  be spontaneous 





When my partner and I go on a vacation I would like to:\*  wait until we get there and then decide what to do 

  have a plan in mind about our activities 





In my relationship it is more important that:\*  we have a strong sense of what is right and wrong 

  we have fun and excitement 





When my partner and I go out to a function,\*  I don’t worry too much if we are late 

  I need to be on time 





When seeking a partner it was more important\*  to see if they are trustworthy and honest 

  see if we have common interests to share in 





In my relationship it is more important for me to be:\*  charming and impulsive 

  loyal, prepared and dependable 





When choosing a spouse I believe it is more important to choose\*  someone who will make me think 

  someone who is fun to be around 





When it comes to discussing important issues with my partner I like to think that I am quite:\*  Open minded 

  Knowledgeable 





When putting together something mechanical for my spouse,\*  I am curious to know how it works 

  I could care less how it works, just as long as it does 





When trying to fix a problem in my relationship I would probably:\*  just try and fix it by trial and error 

  buy a book and read up on the topic 





In a new relationship I would be more likely to:\*  take some time and evaluate the person 

  jump right in and have fun 





When I communicate with my spouse I tend to act:\*  more informal and playful 

  more formal and instructive 





I would prefer that the person I choose to spend the rest of my life with would be:\*  a sensible spouse 

  a clever and smart companion 





In my relationships it is important for me to:\*  be seen as calm, cool, and collected 

  be faithful, stable and organized 





When it comes to problems in relationships, I like to look for:\*  solutions that we have used before successfully 

  new ways to resolve our issues 





When thinking about my relationship I often think about:\*  what we will do in the future 

  what we are doing in the present 





When it comes to special times such as holidays,\*  I like to plan parties and events around those occasions 

  don’t really care if we do that much 





When my partner wants me to do something, I appreciate\*  them thinking about it before they ask me 

  them being clear and specific 





In my relationship, I prefer to be valued for:\*  my contributions and uniqueness 

  my energy and excitement 





When I get into an argument with my spouse, it is more important to\*  confront the issues at hand 

  make things right 





When making a big purchase like buying a car, I tend to base my decision on\*  my feelings and trust of the seller 

  the appearance and cool options 





In my relationship, I value:\*  finding ways to energizing my relationship 

  integrity and unity 





If I had my choice of an activity to do with my partner I would choose\*  a nice walk in nature 

  white water rafting 





If my partner was in a bad mood, I would try to make them feel better by:\*  taking them out for a fun evening or 

  talking to them about what’s wrong 





When my partner and I go over to a close friends place I am more likely to greet them with\*  a verbal greeting or handshake 

  a hug 





In my relationship, I demonstrate love by\*  being affectionate and romantic 

  the practical things I do for my loved ones 





In my relationship it is more important for me to:\*  strive for a sense of security and trust 

  have frequent and deep conversations 





In my relationship it is more important for me to be:\*  motivating and encouraging 

  helpful and trustworthy 





In my romantic relationship, I looked for\*  a dependable mate 

  a soul mate 





In my romantic relationship it is more important\*  to make my partner happy 

  be safe and secure





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*Assessment developed by Lawrence Stoyanowski, M.Sc. All Rights Reserved.*