Conflict is normal in every type of relationship – from business to personal, and especially intimate relationships. Every couple goes through it. This is for a number of reasons including the fact that when you enter into a relationship, it isn’t just between two people. It’s between two unique personalities, shaped by unique circumstances.
Conflict can arise when we feel threatened. It’s not about physical danger but relates more to our needs, wants, desires and, most importantly, our expectations of the other person.
What Really Matters
As stated above, conflict is normal. Of course, it’s not normal if the conflict is frequent and severe. But occasional conflict happens to all couples.
How you manage and handle that conflict within your relationships, though, is the key to a healthy one. If you or your partner are prone to losing your temper, getting angry and becoming defensive, things can become very difficult – especially in the long-term
